The Inspirers/Girl-Mother
Pattern
(Conscious Girlchild, Subconscious Mother)
People who function from a conscious Girlchild and subconscious Mother
pattern live to inspire others. They supercharge unconditional love
with Girlchild care and finesse. Conscious Girlchild spends her time
thinking about how she can help people, and subconscious Mother provides
her with the “who, what, where, when and why” to do so.
Girl-Mothers know how to give others the nurturing, teaching, guiding
and unconditional love they want without expecting anything in return.
People generally feel safe and relaxed in their presence, which gives
them a lot of power and control. They often serve in lines of work
like nursing or counseling. They also gravitate to the world of dance
where many are ballerinas, living for a beauty that transcends the
beauty they have seen.
Girl-Mothers can appear childlike. When they are not under pressure,
they often speak in a musical and high-pitched tone. At the same time,
they have a lot of emotional maturity. All of a sudden, at the drop
of a hat, they may say something extremely wise and mature that catches
us off guard. They can also endure through the most difficult circumstances.
Girl-Mothers are healers. They have an incredible ability to bring
forth deep resources within themselves, to mother life, to contact
divinity and to pull down extraordinary creativity. Girl-Mothers like
to know how the body works and often get involved in other people’s
health. They are drawn to natural health regimens. Others sometimes
think they go overboard and label them as “health freaks,”
but they are just trying to be fastidious and earnest about taking
good care of their bodies and want to convince everyone around them
to do the same.
No matter what their field of work, Girl-Mothers show tremendous creativity.
Sometimes, their gifts are hard to measure, because they are subtle
and non-linear. They may appear to be empirical, but their knowledge
comes from their intuition.
Girl-Mothers also have psychic abilities. They read people as a natural
defense mechanism, checking for any malintent. Even so, they sometimes
still lack discernment and let others take advantage of their generosity.
Then, when they feel mistreated, they become aloof and are unable
to resolve the situation. The juxtaposition of these two energies
is hard for others to deal with—basking in a beautiful pink
ovoid of unconditional love one moment and being abandoned the next.
When Girl-Mothers hold an inflated opinion about themselves, they
will seek to tie themselves to people who will confirm that opinion
and prop them up. Then, their motive for caring becomes selfish—to
generate idolatry from others through seeming altruism. They must
guard against facilitating the worst in others in order to receive
approval, and they must also guard against doing good deeds only to
boost their self-image.
Girl-Mothers need to be cautious not to become drawn to people who
would abuse of their willingness to serve. As long as Girl-Mothers
exercise discrimination in their relationships, they can bring great
healing and inspiration to others and draw out the best in them.
~Girl-Mothers love to inspire and heal others.
~They can appear childlike and think in non-linear
ways.
~They live for beauty and have tremendous creativity.
~They use their psychic abilities as a defense
mechanism.
~When injured, they may succumb to an aloof
pattern of denial.
~This combination is especially challenging
for men.
Famous Girl-Mothers
Singer Andrea Bocelli
Singer Sarah Brightman
Singer John Denver
Indian actress Aishwarya Rai
Actress Meryl Streep
Spiritual teacher Paramahansa Yogananda
Scientist Albert Einstein
The Girl-Mother pattern is described in greater
detail in our book, The
Inner Family Archetypes: Building Loving Relationships Through Divine
Self-Awareness.
Read about the other patterns.
~The
Achievers (Conscious Boychild, subconscious Mother)
~The
Crusaders (Conscious Boychild, subconscious Girlchild)
~The
Stoics (Conscious Boychild, subconscious Father)
~The
Analysts (Conscious Mother, subconscious Boychild)
~The
Nurturers (Conscious Mother, subconscious Girlchild)
~The
Creators (Conscious Girlchild, subconscious Boychild)
~The
Overcomers (Conscious Girlchild, subconscious Father)
Disclaimer: The archetypal assessments
of celebrities included here are based on their public—not their
private—life. They simply illustrate an archetypal pattern of
behavior and are not intended to limit anyone.
© 2010 Sirius Consulting
